Jesseca DeMone (she/her) MC

Maybe you're craving a deeper connection with yourself, your body, or the people closest to you. Maybe you're trying to make sense of who you are beyond the relationships you've been in, or learning to trust yourself again after experiences that made that difficult.

Jesseca DeMone (MC, Registered Provisional Psychologist) works with individuals seeking a deeper understanding of themselves and their relationships. Her areas of focus include emotional connection, intimacy, sexuality, identity, attachment wounds, sexual behaviours, and relational patterns. As someone with ADHD herself, Jesseca brings a genuine neurodivergent lens to her work and is known for her visual explanations, practical tools, and collaborative exploration.

With lived and professional experience in sexual and reproductive health, Jesseca provides a non-pathologizing lens for those navigating desire discrepancies, pelvic pain, performance anxiety, anorgasmia, and distress around sexual behaviours, such as porn usage.

Currently Accepting New Clients

Registered Provisional Psychologist | Attachment | Pelvic Pain | EMDR | Neurodivergent-Affirming | Sexual Health and Trauma | Trans-Affirming | Calgary, Alberta

Jesseca views people as relational beings who are wired for connection. Her work supports those longing for a deeper connection with themselves, questioning old patterns, exploring who they are outside of their relationships, or rebuilding trust in themselves after experiences that left them feeling hurt, abandoned, or disconnected.

Jesseca believes that healing happens through connection, and is known for balancing warmth with honesty. She will validate your experiences and call you on patterns when it's time. Clients who appreciate being challenged alongside being seen enjoy her style.

WHO JESSECA WORKS WITH

Jesseca works with individual adults navigating:

Attachment wounds and trauma
Emotional regulation, and understanding behavioural and relational patterns
(Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) EMDR
Sexual shame, sexual desire discrepancy, libido, and anorgasmia
Performance anxiety, erectile concerns, and distress around porn
Pelvic pain: including pain with intercourse, Genito Pelvic Pain Disorder (GPPPD), formally known as vaginismus and dyspareunia
Men exploring masculinity, gender roles, and what it means to be male beyond societal scripts
Identity and life transitions including post-breakup reconstruction
Neurodivergence, especially ADHD, and its intersection with relationships and identity
Consensual non-monogamy, (CMN), polyamory, and kink-affirming relational contexts

Jesseca works with individuals only. If you are looking for couples therapy, the RTW team can connect you with a practitioner whose scope includes relational work.

JESSECA'S APPROACH

Jesseca works from an exploratory blend of attachment, somatic awareness, narrative, and IFS parts-based frameworks. Her work is grounded in attachment theory and rooted in genuine curiosity. She pays close attention to the nervous system, slowing down to meet the clients where they are at.

Her Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) training adds a structured trauma-processing layer for clients whose experiences are rooted in attachment wounds or adverse events. She uses EMDR when stabilization and readiness are established, not as a first-session tool.

Psychoeducation is woven throughout. Clients frequently leave sessions with a new lens on why something has been happening, not just tools for managing it.

She will reflect patterns back to you when the time is right and her sessions are often visual. She maps with clients out loud, and many people photograph the whiteboard at the end of a session because something has shifted into clarity.

CREDENTIALS & TRAINING

Registered Provisional Psychologist, College of Alberta Psychologists (CAP)
Master’s of Counselling (MC), City University of Seattle, Calgary, AB
Bachelor of Arts (BA) with a Major in Psychology, St. Mary's University, Calgary, AB
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
Brain Story: Brain Science & Trauma Informed Approach
Changing the ADHD Brain: Moving Beyond Medication
Busting Myths About Male Sexuality: Implications for Therapy with Men, Women and Couples
Emergency First Aid CPR/AED Level C

BOOKING DETAILS

In-Person in Calgary, and Virtual across Alberta
$235/hr
60, 90, and 120-minute sessions available
Direct billing to most insurers
Sliding scale spots full

book a free 20-minute consult with Jesseca

Frequently Asked Questions

Please reach us at admin@revolutiontw.com if you cannot find an answer to your question.

What is pelvic pain therapy and can a psychologist help with it?

Yes. Pelvic pain, including pain with intercourse, vulvodynia, vaginismus, and unexplained pelvic symptoms, has significant psychological dimensions even when it also has physiological causes. Jesseca specializes in the emotional, relational, and identity impacts of living with pelvic pain and navigating a medical system that often dismisses or misdiagnoses it. She works in collaboration with pelvic floor physiotherapists and other providers where appropriate.

Does Jesseca DeMone specialize in sexual health therapy in Calgary?

Yes. Jesseca specializes in sexual health, intimacy, desire, sexual shame, anorgasmia, and the psychological dimensions of sexual function in Calgary and virtually across Alberta.

Does Jesseca offer EMDR therapy?

Yes. Jesseca offers EMDR for trauma, attachment wounds, and experiences that have become embedded in the nervous system. EMDR is used once stabilization and readiness are in place.

Is Jesseca neurodivergent-affirming?

Yes. Jesseca is herself neurodivergent and works with ADHD and other neurotypes in the context of intimacy, sexuality, relationships, and identity. She does not pathologize neurological difference.

Does Jesseca work with men exploring masculinity and sexual concerns?

Yes. Jesseca works with men navigating performance anxiety, erectile concerns, porn-related distress, and the deconstruction of inherited ideas about what it means to be male. Her approach is non-judgmental and does not rely on conventional framings of male sexuality.

Does Jesseca offer couples therapy?

No. Jesseca works with individuals only. If you are looking for couples or relationship therapy, the Revolution Therapy & Wellness team can connect you with a practitioner whose scope includes relational work.

What is Jesseca's style like in sessions?

Direct, exploratory, and relational. Jesseca validates and supports, and she will also reflect patterns back when the time is right. Sessions are often visual, with clients mapping their thoughts and experiences on a whiteboard. Many clients photograph the board at the end of a session. She is not a soft or passive presence, and that is intentional.

Is Jesseca accepting new clients?

Yes. Jesseca is currently accepting new individual clients at Revolution Therapy & Wellness in Calgary. Book a free 20-minute consultation at revolutiontw.janeapp.com.